Control - One partner makes all the decisions and tells the other what to do, or tells the other partner what to wear or who to spend time with.
Dishonesty - One partner lies to or keeps information from the other. One partner steals from the other.
Physical abuse - One partner uses force to get his/her way (for example, hitting, slapping, grabbing, and shoving).
Disrespect - One partner makes fun of the opinions and interests of the other partner. He or she may destroy something that belongs to the other.
Intimidation - One partner tries to control every aspect of the other's life. One partner may attempt to keep his/her partner from friends and family or threaten violence or a break-up.
Sexual abuse - One partner pressures or forces the other into sexual activity against his/her will or without his/her consent.
Dependence - One partner feels that he/she "can't live without" the other. He/she may threaten to do something drastic if the relationship ends.
Hostility - One partner may "walk on eggshells" to avoid upsetting the other. Teasing is mean-spirited.