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Missy
Jenkins Smith is sharing her story of forgiveness. Survivor
of the 1997 Heath High School Shooting in West Paducah ,
Ky. , Missy was a 15-year-old sophomore when classmate Michael
Carneal opened fire on a before-school prayer group. Left
paralyzed from the chest down, she has dedicated her life
to helping troubled adolescents like Michael.
Co-author
of the new book, “I Choose to be Happy: A School Shooting
Survivor’s Triumph Over Tragedy,” Missy explains how forgiving
Carneal has given her the strength to lead a fulfilling
life.
“I
chose to write my book because I know there are people out
there that may be going through the same things I am; whether
it be paralysis, or trying to forgive someone,” says Smith.
“I felt like I have learned a lot in the past 10 years and
that I could help someone who may be facing the same issues.”
Earning
a bachelor’s degree from MSU in social work in 2004, she
didn’t let physical challenges stop her from enjoying the
college experience. As a student, she served as president
and vice president of the Student Association of Social
Workers, vice president of American Humanics, and senator
in the Student Government Association. A member of the Alpha
Omicron Pi sorority, she was named one of Ladies Home
Journal’s Most Fascinating Women of 1998, Kentuckian
of the Year in 2000 and Miss Wheelchair Kentucky in 2003.
Missy
has traveled across the country speaking to school groups
and raising awareness to prevent school violence, including
the Democratic National Convention in 2000. At schools she
has spoken at in recent years, two teenage students have
approached her admitting they had contemplated suicide and
decided not to after hearing her story.
In
July 2007, Missy confronted Carneal at the Kentucky State
Reformatory. She reveals details of that significant meeting
in her book.
“I’ve
always said that there will never be closure for me. But
I think that visit was the closest I’ll ever come,” says
Missy.
Sarah
Brady, whose husband Jim was wounded in the 1981 assassination
attempt on President Ronald Reagan, has written the forward
to Missy’s book. Diane Sawyer, television anchor for ABC’s
Good Morning America comments says, “Missy breaks
your heart, puts it back together again, and makes you a
believer…”
Carneal,
who is serving life sentence, has recently appealed his
guilty plea. The appeal is scheduled to be reviewed by the
Kentucky Supreme Court in 2009.
Now
a counselor at the Calloway County Day Treatment Center
in Murray, Missy brings a wealth of life experience to her
job. “I chose this career because I felt that being a social
worker I would get the opportunity to work with people like
the boy who shot me,” says Missy. “I am doing that now as
a counselor.”
Missy
and her husband Josh, a 2004 MSU graduate, celebrated the
birth of their son Logan in 2007. A crusader for hope, she
remains thankful for the many blessings in her life.
Missy’s
book was released in October 2008.
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